Quite a trending word…Thanks to a certain actress for taking this up as an important issue😕
But is it really fair to blame it all to nepotism…I mean if it is so bad, aren’t we all equally responsible to it ?! Why even play a victim card !!!
Has any person ever succeeded without using nepotism…If yes then I would be very happy to hear so, but chances would be very rare.
And don’t mention about our country, nepotism is just everywhere which every field you go…
Let us go by its literal meaning –
‘the practice among those with power or influence of favouring relatives or friends, especially by giving them jobs‘
Now tell me do you really think Nepotism is bad after hearing this…Some tell it is overrated, some say it is unfair.
Overrated for those who are used to it…and unfair to those who don’t benefit from it.
Now let us assume…Bollywood for that matter…Earlier there was a time when star kids launch was so much favoured and now tables have turned; now even a normal person can become an actor and star in no time…And where are star kids…There are some who fared well, some sank down…Now it is complete thanks to their acting, merit or strong PR, whatever!
So what about star kids who could not make it…Is it fair to blame nepotism here; even they won’t complain about it…then why should we?Just because we are from a different planet where high-fi contacts don’t exist…
Forget Bollywood,let us come to our guests and relatives ; either they depend on us or we on them…’Ha aap toh badi sundar dikh rahi ho’ to ‘Aap theek toh hai?’…From these lovey dovey guestures; now we come to the main point – ‘Kya karoon…my son is looking for job…this and that?’ And then comes a wonderous reply ‘Hum hai na…laga denge na job…koi baat nahi‘ Mission completed!!!
Now tell me is this Nepotism…If it is, then having relatives is the biggest crime in the world (sic)
Talk about jobs, which company gives job on merit;no I mean it does give on merit but if I suggest them a contact; I am very much confident; merit won’t even stand there.That is sadly the harsh reality which some may feel vague but as you step out of this world.
You will feel just where do we all stand…We may be victims of it; but if today I offer you nepotism heartily; you won’t hesitate it; it is just that normal and something not to be made a big issue of !!!
So I am on nepotism’s side…That is what you feel? I would rather not take sides here coz a person like me won’t hesitate to accept that I have never took help of any relative for anything…But I would also say at the same time that I have also been victim of it…And even if I scream on top of my lungs; that what happened to me is unfair…Just doesn’t makes sense😑
That is harsh itself about NEPOTISM!!! You favour it and you can’t act against it…
Nepotism is all about being in contacts and having excellent communication skills to be there at foremost.I think that is what is the difference between merit and contacts.It is all about being smart.The art of manipulating and being manipulated is what goes hand in hand here.
See, you still thinking I am taking side of nepotism…What else can I or we do…That is what life has taught us sadly…be patient, be in wrong, be smart and do some jugaad…
‘Hum toh galat hai,par tum bhi konse sahi ho, hum sab ek hi doobti ganga ke hai or ek hi khet ke mooli hai’…
These all were very small issues…which are like ‘apne hi ghar ki baatein’…
But using nepotism which is unfair in a way which supports wrong, affects the innocent, let’s powerful rule, for example : in crime, murder, rape, prostitution or other rights…Is something which is unacceptable and won’t be tolerated…Justice has to be prevailed here 😇
Small things are fine right, but I hope we can even treat these small things seriously too…coz these small things only worsen the situation to such big crimes😬
And one message to a certain actress who bought this new word to us…Someone who has already achieved so big…You should really not be complaining…you should be thankful to it…
Your views on nepotism…do comment😊